I've actually told a few of the guys I've dated, and it went over better than I thought. The most recent actually brought up Lex/Clark from Smallville as an example (he liked to read all things meta), and he was fine with me writing J2 (never brought up the Wincest, heh). Another guy thought it meant I wanted to see him have sex with a guy, so just, NO. Funny though, it's easier for me to bring this up to guys than it is with my RL girl friends. I wonder what that says...huh.

It is crazy to think that we're just a part of the SPN fandom, and people ARE involved (or mostly uninvolved) in so many different ways (some of which I probably wouldn't approve of, like celebrity stalking). But I'm so glad I'm in *this* corner, you have no idea :P